Anonymous asked: Asking for your advice/like what would you do in this kind of situation. Sorry if this is long! Dave befriends Kim then a week/2 later, Kim asks for his #. Text everyday&close to a month, Kim develop feelings for Dave&confess.He felt the same but both aren't ready. Days after, Dave rarely talks to Kim (personal problems) even tho Kim wants to get to know him. Should Kim continue to like him/what to do? He doesn't treat her special&how will they process? Kim really likes him(no post on askfm) D:
No problem, feel free to ask. I’m not sure if I’m the right one to answer this though, but I’ll try to give my opinion of the situation (this will probably just end up with me rambling about not knowing what I’m talking about..)
So, a rather similar thing happened to me some years ago (where I was “Dave”) and I’ve heard the same kind of stories from friends. Basing this on my own experience, it partly has to do with the person taking distance having problems of their own, just as you wrote. Maybe Dave felt that he liked Kim and told her that he did, as she confessed, but then turned insecure when he started thinking about a future as a couple. I guess it’s quite usual to think “wow, that person likes me, I think I feel the same” when you’re confessed too. But ultimately you can’t bring forth that doubtless form of love. Or how should I put it; you can try to convince yourself that you like someone – both for your own and for that person’s sake – but when you notice that you’re trying to force the feeling of being in love, you realize that the relationship is never going to work out. For the above case, I think Kim should try showing that them staying friends is what’s important. Dave’s probably stressed and feels bad over not being able to give Kim a clear answer; therefore the best would probably be if they just put the whole “relationship thing” aside for some time and try to hang out as friends. Then, as time has passed, they’ll know what to do. Of course it’s hard for Kim to not know what he thinks of her, but it’s better not to rush it (own experience: I was rushed by someone into giving a straight yes or no which ended in me getting so anxious I broke off all kind of contact with that person).
I don’t even know what I just wrote but I hope this came somewhat close the answer you’re looking for. ;;
Anonymous asked: Have you ever had braces~? Btw your adorable *^*
I had braces for almost 3 years (and I still have that smaller kind on the back of my teeth) (
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